miércoles, 14 de abril de 2010

The Ethical Slut




The world generally views sluts as debased, degraded, promiscuous,
indiscriminate, jaded, immoral adventurers, destructive, out of control
and driven by some form of psychopathology that prevents them from
entering into a healthy monogamous relationship. Oh, yes, and
definitely not ethical.

We see ourselves as people who are committed to finding a place of
sanity with sex, and to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to
share it in as many ways as may fit for each of us. We may not always
know what fits without trying it on, so we tend to be curious and
adventurous. When we see someone who intrigues us, we like to be free
to respond, and in exploring our own response, discover whatever is
special about that person we are turned on to. We like relating to
people, and tend to be gregarious, enjoying the company of different
sorts of folk, and reveling in how our differences expand our horizons
and offer us new ways to be ourselves.



Sluts tend to want a lot of things: different forms of sexual
expression, different people, perhaps men and women both. We are
curious: what would it be like to combine the energies of four or five
people in one incandescent sexual encounter? What would it be like to
share physical intimacy with that person who has been my best friend
for ten years? What would it be like with this other person who is so
very different from me? Some of us express more than one identity in
intimate encounters with diverse people. Some of us love flirtation
for its own sake, as an art form, and others make an art form out of
sex. All of us love adventure.

2 comentarios:

Anarco Cerda Sudaka dijo...

creo en un presente donde la afinidad no se confunda con la semiotica pelotuda del amor romantico
creo en un presente con vos helena en manada
divertite el viernes por mi para mi y conmigo por todas
love u
gracias por estar ahi eternas y totales

Hong dijo...

Cool!